Well clutch the antique pearls!!...in my inbox? What? A Make-Up Artist ranting that a bride had suggestions during the consult? How dare that bride, actually having an opinion about what she shall look like on her wedding day! What's a MUA to do?
Shame Shame Shame!!! MUAs - WE ARE HIRED HELP!!! We are hired to do a beautiful job because of our expertise, experience & ...
Without clients - WE ARE NOTHING!
WE OFTEN HAVE NO POWER OVER ART/CREATIVE DIRECTION of weddings UNLESS that is a part of the contract agreement or TOTAL TRUST is established other-wise...as in through a detailed consult or you have an EXTENSIVE BRIDAL PORTFOLIO that gives the client complete confidence in you. When you bring these specialized services to a bridal client, charge adequate fees & still remain mindful that we are hired help.
In bridal situations, RARELY is there an existent opportunity to execute YOUR vision for what a bridal client may desire for herself. The stresses that brides feel when it comes to their planning & ultimately the big day are understandable UNLESS it comes to the point where HIRED HELP, like MAKE-UP ARTISTS are suffering some form of abuse from said client.
When working with bridal clients, use images & do a VERY THOROUGH CONSULT so you are more likely to grasp the client's vision. When the client is ABSOLUTELY CLEAR & CONFIDENT that you are in tune with their vision - you may have the freedom to show more of YOUR technique, expertise, personal make-up philosophy & really put your stamp on the bridal looks.
A MUA being TOLD WHAT TO DO is not abuse. A picky client usually is not stepping on our toes or questioning our expertise...
THEY ARE EXERCI$ING THEIR RIGHT TO BE AN EDUCATED CON$UMER!
We should relish each opportunity to satisfy a very selective client every chance we get,
after all...
...most of us cannot rightfully think of it any other way because with our current level of expertise & experience - we have much growth to achieve. Much of that growth may be wisdom.
Sincerely,
Jennifer James | MUA
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Tuesday, January 11, 2011
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Bravo Sis!!
ReplyDeletemore wisdom to live/work by!!!
ReplyDeletewell said, jennifer. while i don't condone a bride that is abusive and belittling to a MUA, i very much encourage open dialogue so that i can get a clear understanding of what she wants/expects for HER day. i feel that my job is to assist in making her look and feel her absolute best and to use all the "tips and tricks" in my little toolbox to ensure that she gets what she wants (with a little polish and pizazz when/where appropriate!)
ReplyDeleteExcellent read!!
ReplyDeleteSoo true, Jennifer!
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